Saturday, September 17, 2011

The Art Of Marriage


Happiness in marriage is not something that just happen
A good marriage must be created
In marriage the little things is a big things
It is never being too old to hold hands
It is remembering to say “i love you” at least once a day
It is never going to sleep angry
It is at no time taking the other for granted
The coutrtship should not end with the honeymoon
It should continue through the years
It is having the mutual sense of values and common objectives
It is standing together facing the world
It is forming circle of love that gathers in the whole family
It is doing things for each other, not in the attitude of duty or sacrifice, but in the spirit of joy
It is speaking words of appreciation
And demonstrating gratitude in thoughtful ways
It is not looking for perfecting in each other
It is cultivating flexibility, patience, understanding and sense of humor
It is having the capacity to forgive and forget
It is giving each other an atmosphere in which each can grow
It is a common search for the good and the beautiful
It is estblishing a relatonship which independence is equal
Dependence is mutual and the obligation is reciprocal
It is not only marrying the right partner, it is being the right partner
It is discovering what marriage can be, at its best.