Christmas~~it's all about LOVE

For unto us a child is born, unto us a son is given: and the government shall be upon his shoulder: and his name shall be called Wonderful, Counsellor, The mighty God, The everlasting Father, The Prince of Peace.

Yesaya 9:5 

We Were The Reason

Beautiful Exchange - Hillsong

 ::::Love, Peace and Joy came down on earth on Christmas day to make you happy and cheerful. May Christmas spread cheer in your lives! ::::

WHAT TYPE OF LEADER ARE YOU?

Doesn’t life prove human potential is limitless? New world records are set every Olympic Games. In 1969, we put our first man on the moon and today Richard Branson is planning tourist trips there. Neil Armstrong said: “one small step for man one gaint leap for mankind.”

In our weakness lies our greatest potential. Instead of accepting all of ourselves, we repress what we are ashamed of. Trouble is, anything hidden from the light of truth has  funny way of popping out and bitting us when we lest expect it.

The good news is, each of us has life - energy and vitality that is connected to Source. This means each of us is a compass with a needle pointing “home”.

At the heart of our desire we want to know that what we are has value and meaning. As long as we’re open to exploring and expressing our uniqueness, we are naturally on course to our greatness! Or we could work to reverse development. Only we can stunt our evolution.

Remember how the wicked witch poisoned Sleeping Beauty? Fear, hatred and jelously failed to destroy innocence and purity, succeeding only in causing a deep sleep. Muahhhh! Then Sleeping Beauty was awakened by the lover’s kiss. Love triumphs over fear. Love brings consciousness back and life blossoms anew.

That what Walt Disney’s way of saying, “wake up to love, wake up to life.” Children get it, so why can’t we? We must wake up from this mass sleep. The world is working hard to pull wool over our eyes, to make us out of the bad. Let’s remember who we are, where we come from and what we really want. Everything that is not from love is illusion – it’s the wicked witch working to induce nightmare. Wake up. Getting conscious is our best chance of living happily ever after.

When was the last time you asked your spouse, “Baby, how well I am meeting your needs?” Sit with each of your children and ask them, “what can I do to make you feel more confident? How can I encourage you so you will be happier?” Have you ever asked your subordinate, “How can I inspire you to excel?” Ask. Don’t be afraid of the answers. Don’t we want to know if we’re doing things right, doing things well? Aren’t we interested in peace, progress and harmony? How are you using your status, power and influence to improve the lives of others?

If the leadership is about turning vision into reality, if self-actualisation is about turning potential into measurable competence, then self-actualising leadership is about enabling others to be t their best while making their dream come true. It’s not easy. Most leaders just focus on being popular.

People aren’t prepared to face the truth either. They prefer to remain sedated by this mass hypnosis, “I am what I have. I am what I do. I am my reputation, my past.” How miserable life must be. From that place we continue to sell ourselves down the river. Aiming for recovery and renewal, and to let change begin, the first question is always, “what is your current situation? Where are you starting from?” Only when we are firmly grounded in reality can we take actions that will lead us to an inspiring life.

Some think leadership is about bossing people around. “Identify the obstcles. Set a deadline. Get the job done.” They forget they’re leading hearts and minds, not blocks of wood. There’s human life at stake, the future of our children, the ecology of community. Then there are those who reach the top by cutting others down. At Source, do you think heaven cares how many followers you have?

The real work of leadership is to bring hope. A good leader works to develope other leaders. Those who serve the interests of others are shown not just obedience but respect.

What type of leader are you? If you believe you can do better than you’ve ever done, if you think you are doing great, the best is yet to come.

Self-Confidence

No confidence..do you have that? My Revenue Law lecturer once said, it is normal, no one born and have enough confident. It should be build and need practice to improve. I got this kind of problem. Every time I got presentation, my whole body shaking! My teeth, my hands, my legs...o gosh..it is funny but I feel terrible..I can’t help it. When I smile, I don’t know if the smiley face come out, I think my face turn into something else..its not looks like I’m smiling..my face turn red..like udang rebus. I don’t know if the audiences notice it.

I really don’t like having assignment or project with senior. U know y? Because they are more advance, more knowledgeable than me. I don’t have the confident to speak out my idea & opinion..then I just listen the discussion and give opinion, complaining, agreeing in my head, talking to myself..useless. It means that I’m fear of rejection, criticism, being ignored! I’m fear of what people might think about me or about my opinion that make me feel worse.

I'm interested in an article wrote by Tessie Lim (founder of Tessie Lim Sdn Bhd) in New Sunday Times..it is about Building Self-Confident. Why on earth do we need to continue having no confidence? We even not see a pretty picture for the next 2 or 3 years if we are still like this. If confidence comes from doing well but we don’t do, how will we get good? If we think but don’t act, then feel frustrated..are we ready to change this pattern so we get a better result? We’re the one label ourselves as a ‘loser’. That's not we are, that's not all we are! So when people criticized it won’t make who we are, but what we think makes who we are. That's why it is important to think well of ourselves. When we do that, we feel good, we have energy, we want do things, we want do well. Its a virtuous cycle. We had the authority to chose. We can chose our feeling, we can chose our thoughts...the keyword being “I can”

http://tessieworld.com/

Petra ^^

http://www.atlastours.net/jordan/petra.html

The Art Of Marriage

Happiness in marriage is not something that just happen

A good marriage must be created

In marriage the little things is a big things

It is never being too old to hold hands

It is remembering to say “i love you” at least once a day

It is never going to sleep angry

It is at no time taking the other for granted

The coutrtship should not end with the honeymoon

It should continue through the years

It is having the mutual sense of values and common objectives

It is standing together facing the world

It is forming circle of love that gathers in the whole family

It is doing things for each other, not in the attitude of duty or sacrifice, but in the spirit of joy

It is speaking words of appreciation

And demonstrating gratitude in thoughtful ways

It is not looking for perfecting in each other

It is cultivating flexibility, patience, understanding and sense of humor

It is having the capacity to forgive and forget

It is giving each other an atmosphere in which each can grow

It is a common search for the good and the beautiful

It is estblishing a relatonship which independence is equal

Dependence is mutual and the obligation is reciprocal

It is not only marrying the right partner, it is being the right partner

It is discovering what marriage can be, at its best.

Unconditional Luv

We have received the greatest love from Him. Unconditionally!

Hosanna

I see a King of glory
Coming down the clouds with fire
The whole earth shakes 2x
I see His love and mercy
Washing over all our sins
The people sing 2x

Hosanna, hosanna
Hosanna in the highest 2x

I see a generation
Rising up to take their place
With selfless faith 2x
I see a near revival
Stirring as we pray and seek
We’re on our knees 2x

Heal my heart and make it clean
Open up my eyes to the things unseen
Show me how to love like You have love me
Break my heart for what break Yours
Everything I am for Your kingdom’s cause
As I walk from earth into eternity

::::lets sing this song along :)

REIGN IN US-Starfield

You thought of us before the world began to breathe
And you knew our names before we came to be
You saw the very day we'd fall away from you
And how desperately we need to be redeemed

Lord Jesus come lead us
We're desperate for Your touch

Oh Great and Mighty One, with one desire we come
That You would reign, that You would reign in us
We're offering up our lives, a living sacrifice
That You would reign, that You would reign in us

Spirit of the Living God fall fresh again
Come search our hearts and purify our lives
We need Your perfect love
We need Your discipline
We're lost unless you guide us with Your light

Lord Jesus come lead us
We're desperate for Your touch

We cry out
For Your love to refine us cry out
For Your love to define us cry out
For Your mercy to keep us blameless until You return

You would reign in us

So reign, please reign in us
Come purify our hearts we need Your touch
Come cleanse us like a flood and send us out
So the world may know You reign, You reign in us

jUst wAnNa sHarE

StudeNt LifE

EXAM

Most of my frens already finish their papers..me?? just begin. ditambahkan lagi dengan exam schedule direct from 19th till 23rd..fuhh 5 papers beb. Actually what the things that make me exciting is counting the days to going back home..lol :D

NEXT SEM
Again, there is some changes in marking scale for next sem. And i believe when i come back after semester break there will be a lot changes in management system..as u know, this is management..always change..

whatever comes into our life just-->

INDAH PADA WAKTUNYA-Julita Manik

ADA WAKTU 'TUK BERDUKA
ADA WAKTU 'TUK BERSUKA
ADA WAKTU 'TUK BERDIAM
ADA WAKTU 'TUK BERKATA

NAMUN DI ATAS S'GALANYA
KU TAHU ALLAHKU BEKERJA
MENDATANGKAN KEBAIKAN
BAGI YANG MENGASIHI-NYA

DI SAAT YANG KU ALAMI
TAK S'PERTI YANG KUINGINI
DI SAAT TIADA JAWABAN
MENGAPA HARUS TERJADI

NAMUN DI ATAS S'GALANYA
KU TAHU ALLAHKU BEKERJA
MENDATANGKAN KEBAIKAN
BAGI YANG MENGASIHI-NYA

MUNGKIN TAK KUPAHAMI
APA YANG KINI AKU ALAMI
NAMUN KU TAHU PASTI
KASIH ALLAHKU TAK KAN BERHENTI

KAN KUS'RAHKAN SEMUA
PERGUMULANKU PADA-MU YESUS
KAR'NA KU TAHU PASTI
SEMUANYA 'KAN JADI
INDAH PADA WAKTUNYA

Best Buddies :)

cutest & lovely friend i ever had :) .

Tidak Seperti Yang Terlihat

Alkisah ada dua malaikat yang sedang berkelana. Mereka singgah di rumah sebuah keluarga yang kaya raya dan menginap disitu. Keluarga itu jahat, mereka tidak mau memberikan kamar mansionnya yang megah nan nyaman bagi malaikat-malaikat tersebut, sebaliknya mereka disuruh tidur di lantai gudang bawah tanah yang dingin. 

Ketika sedang menata kasur di lantai gudang bawah tanah yang keras, malaikat yang lebih tua melihat ada sebuah lubang di dinding, dan lalu mengambil semen yang ia temukan di gudang itu, lalu menambal lubangnya. Ketika malaikat yang lebih muda bertanya mengapa ia melakukan itu, si malaikat tua menjawab: “Semua di dunia ini tidak selalu seperti kelihatannya”.

Malam berikutnya kedua malaikat itu singgah di rumah reyot milik keluarga petani yang miskin. Namun si petani dan istrinya sangat ramah. Bukan hanya berbagi makanan mereka yang teramat sederhana, petani dan istrinya itu juga mengalah dengan mempersilakan kedua tamunya untuk tidur di tempat tidur mereka yang hangat, sehingga kedua malaikat itu dapat tidur dengan nyenyak malam itu.

Ketika matahari mulai bersinar keesokan paginya, kedua malaikat itu bangun dan mendapatkan sumai istri petani itu menangis tersedu-sedu. Sapi milik mereka satu-satunya, yang selama ini menjadi sumber penghasilan keluarga itu, mereka temukan terbaring mati di ladang pagi itu.

Melihat kejadian memilukan itu, hati malaikat muda dipenuhi kemarahan, dan ia bertanya kepada malaikat tua: “Bagaimana bisa kamu membiarkan semua ini terjadi? Keluarga pertama itu begitu kaya raya dan memiliki segalanya, tetapi kamu tetap menolong mereka”, si malaikat muda mulai melancarkan tuduhannya. “Keluarga kedua hanya memiliki sedikit, tetapi mereka dengan senang hati mau berbagi semua milik mereka dengan kita, dan kamu malahan membiarkan sapi mereka mati!”

“Semua di dunia ini tidak selalu seperti kelihatannya”, malaikat tua menjawab. “Ketika kita menginap di gudang bawah tanah mansion milik orang kaya itu, aku melihat ada emas tersimpan di balik lubang di dinding itu. Karena si pemilik mansion adalah orang yang amat serakah dan tidak mau berbagi hartanya yang berlimpah itu, aku menutup lubang di dinding itu agar ia tidak melihatnya.”

“Lalu tadi malam, ketika kita tidur di ranjang petani itu, aku melihat malaikat kematian datang hendak mengambil nyawa si istri petani. Aku menukarnya dengan sapi mereka. Semua di dunia ini tidak selalu seperti kelihatannya”

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Dari kisah itu, sepertinya ada kepincangan. Memang bagi si petani, kehilangan seekor sapi jauh lebih baik daripada kehilangan istrinya. Tapi bagi si orang kaya? Bukankah mendapatkan emas merupakan sesuatu yang baik baginya?

Nah, kisah ini mau mengungkapkan pada kita bahwa yang baik di mata kita belum tentu baik di mata Tuhan. Kita menganggap kesuksesan, kekayaan, jabatan, penghargaan adalah sesuatu yang baik. Padahal bagi Tuhan ada yang jauh lebih baik: yaitu iman kita. Jika kesuksesan, kekayaan dsb itu akan menjauhkan kita dari Tuhan, maka itu berarti kesuksesan tsb bukanlah yang terbaik untuk kita.

Jadi bila saat ini anda telah berdoa sekian lama bagi sesuatu yang baik menurut anda, tapi belum dikabulkan juga, mungkin Tuhan punya rencana lain bagi anda. Dan yang pasti, rencana itu pasti lebih baik buat anda. Maka, teruslah berdoa, tapi ubahlah permohonan anda menjadi: “Tuhan, berikanlah apa yang menurutMu terbaik bagiku”. Lalu tunggulah dan lihatlah apa yang terjadi!